Just added this to my profile :P
A few things:
I am a Teuton, we attack people, that is what we do. If you are on the receiving end it is not personal, it is how the game is played. This is, after all, a war game.
If I am farming you this is not my fault, this is your fault for not protecting yourself and/or resources, it is a very easy thing to do to ensure I get very little or nothing at all. If that happens you will find I will not visit as often or at all.
Do not bother messaging me, it will not discourage me from attacking you.