If you all are having problems using ASE like I was just go to Start --> Run and type this in..
C:Program FilesMicrosoft GamesFreelancerEXEFreelancer.exe" -s12.160.156.20:2302
then when you go to multiplayer it'll show up.
"A buncha slack-jawed faggots around here. This stuff will make you a GOD DAMN sexual Tyranasaurus, just like me" -Jesse Ventura